Thursday, July 31, 2008

Sean Update - appointment tomorrow

In the midst of all this fire stuff, I do have a prayer request for Sean's appointment tomorrow. Sean has been battling bladder infections ever since the transplant and this last one (for the last month or so) seems to be particularly nasty. He's already been on antibiotics for two weeks and he still winces or cries every time he pees - he says "it burns and feels like it's bleeding." Pray that I'll be able to convince his urologist that we really need to find out why he keeps getting these, because he tends to just prescribe another antibiotic and let it go. They see blood and bacteria in his urine every single time he gets labs but if the numbers are low enough the urologist just lets it go, and I'm not sure I'm okay with that anymore. I'd really like to investigate further.

So please pray for us tomorrow. I'm sure Sean won't like all the tests already scheduled, much less any new ones I make them do, but I'd really like to get some answers.

God Bless!

Laurie

New address

We were successful in finding a temporary place to stay. I signed the papers yesterday and we moved in last night - a 2BR, 2bath completely furnished apartment right here in town. It's about halfway between our house and Leah's, right next to the Fareway, which is kind of convenient. :)

Anyway, keep using our regular address and phone, etc. I'm going to call Mediacom today and see if I can sweet-talk them into moving our internet/phone/cable over to the apartment for 2 months so we don't have to pay double.

Tomorrow (Friday) the "movers" are coming to extract every single thing we own and move it to a storage facility in DM. I didn't know they were doing that until yesterday so now I'm kind of frantically packing stuff to take to the apartment and labeling stuff I don't want them to throw away (a lot of our photo albums and our wedding album were upstairs and are now covered in soot.) Everything I don't label they're going to try to clean and if it's too much work they'll just throw it away, so I also grabbed as many of Sean's transformers as I could find and all the baby toys - they said anything plastic like that would likely just get tossed and they wouldn't bother cleaning all of Grace's dolls so if we want to keep them we need to take them out of here today.

Sean has a doctor appointment in Iowa City tomorrow so I can't be here so that will be weird, to just come home to a completely empty house! Poor Shadow. We still haven't really figured out what to do with him yet.

We still have not yet received our clean clothes from the dry cleaners so I'm hoping to also call them so we can have some clothes back! There is a ton of storage at the apartment so that will be so awesome to keep some of our own belongings there, where we know it won't get smoky. I'm afraid all the clothes we've been wearing all week are probably going to have to be thrown away they're so dirty and smoky.

Anyway, I will post more if I can think of anything, but I just wanted to let y'all know that we do have a place to stay for the 2 months and that our insurance is still taking really good care of us. The movers are coming tomorrow, then the construction starts on Monday (hopefully) and the cleaners will probably wait until towards the end to come clean the house and make it smell better.

Thanks for reading and have a great day!

Laurie

Tuesday, July 29, 2008

Fire Update

We met with the adjustor and the contractor yesterday and today and it looks like things are finally starting to move a little bit. Here is the general scoop:

We will definitely be displaced for the next 6-8 weeks if not more, so we are working on getting our insurance company to rent an apartment here in town for us. In the meantime we're mostly staying at a local hotel. Our phone and Internet still work and we have to come back to the house at least 2-3 times a day to let Shadow out so just keep using our regular numbers/addresses.

Jacob went back to Sheldon with his grandparents for a few weeks but since Sean has a doctor appointment in Iowa City this Friday he had to stay home for now (that's a whole 'nother story - lots of nasty UTI's lately so I definitely didn't want to cancel the appointment.)

Our insurance does not allow for homeowners' participation in the construction so it does not help us to have people come over and tear stuff down or do the drywalling or whatever. They will pay the contractor and professional cleaners directly. We can still use help with sorting through the mess upstairs and making piles of what we can save and making lists of what we can't so we can eventually be reimbursed, so definitely let us know ASAP if that's something you can help with. Mark also suggested that if people really want to come over, we plan to take advantage of the dumpster being here and go through the cellar and throw stuff away - all the recent flooding has destroyed a bunch of boxes and stuff down there too and we haven't really done anything about it yet because we didn't know where to bring it all.

It doesn't sound like anything is going to get done this week yet so that leaves us a little time to sort through the mess upstairs and find a place to live before they start destroying our house. (Right now the estimate is at $46,000 so I imagine it will be a BIG mess!) In the meantime, we did go to Goodwill to get a few items for everybody and we're gradually moving more and more stuff into our van, so we're doing okay. If anybody has an extra set of suitcases, we might like to use those instead of plastic bags once we get some clothes back from the dry-cleaners. (Right now we each only have two sets of clothes anyway so it doesn't matter a whole bunch.)

That's all I can think of for now. Mark started his Habitat job today so it's just me and Sean and Grace here and I think we need to go find a hotel for the night. Thanks for reading and talk to you later!

Laurie

Saturday, July 26, 2008

List of Needs and Wants

Okay, I'm getting a little overwhelmed with offers of help, so I thought I'd start here with a short list of things we will need eventually. Unfortunately, this weekend is kind of a lost cause since the insurance adjustor hasn't been out here yet and we can't really get started on anything. Very frustrating but we know we're in this for the long haul.

Immediate needs:
- A long-term temporary place to stay. The contractor says it will be 6-8 weeks and although they'll technically be working upstairs most of the time, it's not really possible to stay here with all the construction going on. We're hoping to find an apartment or maybe borrow someone's camper so we can come home to work but still eat and sleep somewhere else.
- Clothes for Jacob. He really just needs summer clothes for now: shorts, tees, underwear, socks, and a swimming suit. I don't want to buy these new unless I can't find a source for hand-me-downs.

Immediate wants: things that would make our life a little less complicated but aren't really "necessary:"
- Gift cards to local fast-food places or restaurants since we can't eat here (we have electricity but everything is covered with soot!) We will eventually get another place to live and then we won't have to eat out as much but it's kind of unavoidable at this point.
- A pre-paid cell phone for coordinating the construction. Not truly "necessary" since we do still have a real phone but I'm sure they'll turn off the power once in a while and it would be nice to have one at our second location. I'm kind of hoping someone has one they're not using or something...?
- Cash is not really necessary at this point because the insurance agent gave us a check to start staying in hotels, etc.

Later needs/wants:
- After we get the scoop from the adjustor and contractor on Monday (hopefully) we will start calling local people to help with the clean-up. We're hoping that if we do part of the clean-up and/or destruction ourselves we can save a little money and use that to pay the deductible, but we don't know if that's possible or not.
- After the whole thing is over, we will need to replace a lot of carpet, furniture and mattresses. They can stay for now but they're pretty smoky and we'll have to replace them. Everything we currently have was found at garage sales or whatever and I plan to re-furnish the house with all used things again so keep us in mind if you come across any good deals. :)
- Jacob is kind of sad that he lost all his books so I will also start asking for donations to his new library. He had a pretty good collection for an 11-year-old and he'll be anxious to get more books.

I think that's it for now! Like I said, we really don't know anything yet this weekend so we're kind of just hanging out in hotels and coming home to clean every once in a while. Thanks again for praying for us this week!

Laurie

Updates

I'm kind of pressed for time here so I will try to keep this short and sweet.

Mark accepted a position with Habitat for Humanity and will start working there next week. It doesn't pay very well and we don't know if it has benefits but it's a start! And he's very excited about working for a good company. He says he's tired of making rich people richer.

As most of you know by now, we had a fire a couple of days ago. I posted lots of pictures on my facebook page so look for me on Facebook and check them out. It started in the small space above the upstairs ceiling and the insulation caught fire and it just spread along the whole roof line very quickly so now we have a bunch of big holes in the roof but at least it's just on the top floor.

Mark and I don't really believe in "coincidences" and the story about finding the fire is truly amazing. Mark "happened" to still be awake at 1:00 at night and he just "happened" to hear some weird clunking noises upstairs in Jacob's room and headed up to investigate. He thought it felt very warm in there, despite the A/C so he started poking around and discovered an orange glow above the ceiling so he grabbed Jacob and tore downstairs and woke everyone up. We were outside waiting for the fire trucks by the time the smoke alarms went off and we heard a loud crash when the ceiling right above the stairway collapsed and we realized that if we had waited until the smoke alarm went off Jacob would have been stuck upstairs! So despite a very messy house and the prospect of being homeless for the next 6-8 weeks, we feel TRULY blessed! We all had plenty of time to get out of the house and the vast majority of our belongings are fine.

Anyway, I will share more later but I wanted to at least give out the basic story. Our insurance agent has already given us a check to get started with hotels and finding some clothes for Jacob (he lost virtually everything he owns!) and we're meeting with the contractor on Monday to start working out the exact plans. We're also very blessed to have such a caring insurance agent. He's already been here like 3 times to check out the damage and see what we need.

The house smells pretty bad and I'm getting a headache so I think we're heading out for a bit - there's a parade this morning and they always hand out lots of candy so we need to get a good spot. Take care and God bless!!

Laurie